A new poll has found that seven in 10 UK dads downplay health concerns using classic 'dadisms' such as 'I'm just resting my eyes' instead of seeking medical advice. The research, conducted by Practice Plus Group Hospitals, surveyed 2,000 adults and revealed that 73% of dads minimise health concerns rather than consulting a doctor.
Common Dadisms
The nation's favourite 'dadisms' include 'I'm just resting my eyes', 'were you born in a barn?', and 'put a jumper on if you're cold'. While many find these phrases endearing, the study highlights a more serious trend: two-thirds of respondents said their dad regularly makes light-hearted excuses for aches, pains, or mobility problems. Examples include 'needing to get their joints oiled' (12%) or insisting they've 'just slept funny' (23%).
Health Concerns Ignored
Half of respondents said their dad dismisses health concerns because they don't want to make a fuss or don't think it's 'that bad'. Ross Dowsett, CEO of Practice Plus Group Hospitals, commented: 'Some of these classic dadisms are instantly recognisable, but the research has revealed a more concerning trend that dads often dismiss aches and pains with throwaway comments rather than seeking medical advice.'
Real-Life Impact
Chris Newberry, 59, from Truro, Cornwall, delayed hip replacement surgery for years due to osteoarthritis. His son Harry, 18, encouraged him to take action. Chris said: 'Living in Cornwall, we love being outdoors, but my hip pain meant I couldn't properly enjoy being active anymore. Even a round of golf had become difficult.' Harry added: 'I hated him struggling with the pain and knew we'd be able to do more together if he got the surgery.'
Role Reversal in Families
The study also found that 81% of adult children have assisted in managing their parents' healthcare needs, with 57% taking an active role. Among those whose father experiences mobility problems, 69% routinely encourage their dad to seek medical attention. A further 23% have taken leave from work to provide support.
Waiting Lists and Private Healthcare
More than eight in 10 respondents would feel greater peace of mind if their father had quicker access to healthcare. Currently, three in 10 fathers are on a waiting list for treatment. Consequently, 57% would consider helping their father obtain private healthcare appointments due to NHS waiting times. However, 24% reported their dads are hesitant to use private medical insurance, citing complex claims processes (28%) or wanting to 'save it' for something more serious (38%).
Top 10 Dadisms
- I'm just resting my eyes.
- Ask your mother.
- Put a jumper on if you are cold.
- Were you born in a barn?
- You can't leave all the lights on like Blackpool illuminations.
- I'm not going to the doctor for that / I don't want to make a fuss.
- I know a shortcut.
- I don't need to ask for directions.
- Turn that racket down.
- Taxi of mum and dad.
Ross Dowsett added: 'We're increasingly seeing adult children step in to help parents navigate healthcare decisions. This is why it's so important we help people access the treatment and surgery they need sooner so they can get back to enjoying the activities they love again.'
