Colorado Cemetery Orders Removal of Brothers' 'Inappropriate' Gravestone
A family in Colorado Springs is embroiled in a bitter dispute with cemetery management over a headstone they erected five years ago to honor two deceased brothers. Evergreen Cemetery has demanded the removal of the tombstone, which features engraved images of raised middle fingers, labeling it as "inappropriate" and in violation of their regulations.
Family Vows to Fight Cemetery's Decision
The Geschke family, including sisters Heidi and Holly Geschke, have stated they do not plan to alter or remove the marker that commemorates their brothers, Timothy and Ryan Geschke. Holly Geschke emphasized to local media that the design was created with "so much love and respect" and reflects the family's character. She expressed disbelief at the request, noting it would disturb her brothers' resting place.
Cemetery Rules and Manager's Stance
According to Evergreen Cemetery's current rules, memorials cannot include words or images considered profane or offensive to the general public. Manager Cheryl Godbout defended the decision, stating that once she became aware of the violation, action was necessary. She told reporters the number of complaints was "irrelevant" and that ignoring the rules would not be right. The cemetery has offered to store the headstone if removed, but the family refuses.
Historical Context and Family's Position
The headstone was installed five years ago without the family signing a contract or being informed of any rule violations at the time. Holly Geschke recalled that the only instruction given was that the middle finger engravings could not face a nearby street. The family now plans to fight the removal order and, if needed, consider moving their brothers' remains to another location. Holly Geschke asserted, "These are my brothers, I'm not going to let this go."
This case highlights ongoing tensions between personal expression in memorials and institutional regulations, with the Geschke family determined to uphold what they see as a tribute to their loved ones.
