In a departure from her typically professional social media presence, Tulsi Gabbard, the Director of National Intelligence, has offered a rare public glimpse into her personal life with her husband, cinematographer Abraham Williams. The post, shared on February 15, featured a romantic tribute accompanied by ten images that highlight their adventures together, both in and out of the nation's capital.
A Valentine's Day Tribute
Gabbard's message, "I'm a day late … but yesterday was for us," expressed deep affection, adding, "You are my forever valentine. I love you with all my heart and am endlessly grateful for you." This heartfelt declaration marked a significant shift from her usual work-focused content, revealing a more intimate side of the high-ranking official.
Life Beyond Washington DC
While Gabbard's office is located in McLean, Virginia, a DC suburb, the couple appears to spend much of their time at their shared home in a suburb of Austin, Texas, where they relocated from Hawaii in 2024. Abraham Williams, who is eight years younger than Gabbard, does not frequently appear in the capital region, unlike some other political spouses. Instead, their lifestyle centers around their Texas residence and shared interests.
The images posted by Gabbard included at least four shots in Washington DC, such as one outside the White House near Donald Trump's Presidential Walk of Fame and another with the couple riding horses on a sand beach. Other photos showed them hiking up a mountain summit in weighted flak jackets, with Williams holding an American flag, and Gabbard peering over his shoulder at his camera near the Washington Monument.
Shared Interests and Activities
The couple regularly features on the Instagram page of an Austin-area gym, Georgetown Strength, which promotes the Tactical Games—a high-intensity competition combining CrossFit-style workouts with precision rifle and pistol marksmanship. This aligns with Gabbard's background as a Lieutenant Colonel in the Army Reserves, having joined the Army in 2003 and transferred from the Hawaii Army National Guard to the Army Reserve in 2020. She maintains her military status while serving as Director of National Intelligence.
Williams, who is part-Māori and part-Samoan from Auckland, New Zealand, is often on location for film projects. Recently, he posted behind-the-scenes footage from working on the AppleTV show "Chief of War," with about 80% of the season filmed in New Zealand and fight scenes shot in Hawaii's Kalapana lava fields.
Personal Background and History
The couple first met in 2012 when Williams volunteered on Gabbard's campaign, and they married in 2015, while she was still a Democratic politician. Gabbard announced her departure from the Democratic Party in October 2022. Williams is now registered to vote in Texas, though his party affiliation is not listed, and he maintains an Instagram page dedicated to firearms marksmanship and precision sport shooting.
Gabbard was previously married to businessman Eduardo Tamayo from 2002 to 2006. Her current relationship with Williams showcases a blend of personal passion and professional dedication, with the couple balancing their roles between Washington DC and their Texas home.
