A young father has been given the most devastating news, leading his family to celebrate Christmas in November so his newborn son can experience the festive day with his dad.
A Life-Changing Diagnosis
Dan Kettle, a 33-year-old plumber and heating engineer from Oakham, Rutland, received a terminal cancer diagnosis just weeks after he and his wife Bethan welcomed their first child, Rex, in March. The couple, who have been together for over a decade, had only just got married in June 2024.
Dan first visited his doctor in April, concerned about unexplained weight loss and difficulty swallowing. Following an endoscopy and further scans, he was diagnosed with stage 4b oesophageal cancer. By September, scans revealed the tumours had spread, and doctors advised him to stop treatment and focus on enjoying the time he has left with his family.
Creating Precious Memories
In response to the heartbreaking prognosis, the family decided to hold their Christmas celebration last Saturday. This ensured that baby Rex would be able to share the special day with his father.
Bethan's sister, Christine Elkins, spoke of Dan's incredible character. "They always say it happens to the best people, but Dan truly is one of the best people," she said. "There's not a lot he wouldn't have done for somebody else. The strength and courage he has shown over the last six months is a true testimony to his character."
Despite his young age and fitness, which initially gave hope that he could withstand aggressive treatment, the oesophageal cancer proved too aggressive. The family sought private treatment, but the toll was significant, with Dan spending increasing amounts of time in hospital.
A Community's Support
To help them make the most of their remaining time together, the family launched a crowdfunding appeal. The response has been overwhelming, allowing them to create precious memories.
Thanks to the donations, they have already been able to revisit the Kimpton Fitzroy Hotel in London, where they held their wedding reception, and enjoy a night at Hambleton Hall. They were also gifted the use of a holiday home at Rutland Water.
Dan has urged anyone experiencing similar symptoms—weight loss, difficulty swallowing, and fatigue—to see a doctor promptly, as early detection is critical for survival chances with oesophageal cancer.
Bethan expressed her gratitude on the fundraising page, stating, "The kindness, generosity and love shown to our family over the past week has been truly overwhelming. Every message, donation and act of support has brought us so much comfort."
Christine added that the funds will also provide future security for Bethan and Rex as they face a life forever changed. "Their story was just beginning and it's been cut short," she said. "But I'm hoping we can still manage to get a few more memories in."
