More and more singles in the UK are taking breaks from dating apps like Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble, as the initial excitement of swiping gives way to exhaustion and disillusionment. What was once seen as a convenient way to meet potential partners has turned into a source of stress for many.
The Rise of Dating App Fatigue
Users report feeling overwhelmed by the endless cycle of matches that go nowhere, superficial conversations, and the pressure to constantly present an idealised version of themselves. "It starts to feel like a second job," says one London-based user who recently deleted all her dating apps.
Why Are People Quitting?
Common complaints include:
- Ghosting and flakiness – matches frequently disappear without explanation.
- Time-consuming interactions – endless messaging that rarely leads to real dates.
- Algorithm fatigue – frustration with being shown the same profiles repeatedly.
- Emotional burnout – the emotional toll of repeated rejections or unfulfilling connections.
Is the Golden Age of Dating Apps Over?
While apps like Tinder and Bumble revolutionised dating a decade ago, many now wonder if the novelty has worn off. Some users are returning to old-school methods—meeting people through friends, hobbies, or even in-person events.
Experts suggest that taking breaks from dating apps can actually improve mental well-being and lead to more meaningful connections when users do decide to return.
