Younger generations are often accused of rewriting the rules of social interaction, and now, their habit of prolonged staring is under scrutiny. According to recent observations, Generation Z—those born between the late 1990s and early 2010s—frequently engages in direct, unbroken eye contact, leaving older generations feeling unsettled.
While millennials and baby boomers might interpret this behaviour as confrontational or impolite, experts suggest it could simply reflect a shift in social norms. "Gen Z has grown up in an era of constant digital connection, where eye contact in real life holds different weight," explains Dr. Emily Carter, a social psychologist.
Is Staring the New Normal?
Unlike previous generations, who were taught to avert their gaze to avoid awkwardness, many Gen Zers see staring as a form of engagement. "It’s not about intimidation—it’s about presence," says 22-year-old university student Liam Harper. "If I’m looking at you, it means I’m listening."
However, not everyone is convinced. Traditional etiquette coaches argue that excessive eye contact can still come across as invasive, especially in professional settings. "There’s a fine line between attentiveness and making someone uncomfortable," notes manners expert Sarah Wilkinson.
Generational Divide or Cultural Evolution?
The debate highlights a broader generational gap in communication styles. Where older adults may prefer subtle social cues, younger people increasingly favour transparency—even if it means holding a gaze for longer than feels natural to others.
As workplaces and social spaces become more generationally diverse, understanding these differences will be key to avoiding misunderstandings. Whether staring is here to stay as a new norm or fades as a passing trend remains to be seen.
