A new parenting trend called 'FAFO'—short for 'F*** Around and Find Out'—has taken TikTok by storm, sparking heated debates among psychologists and parents alike. The approach, which involves letting children face natural consequences for their actions, is polarising experts who question its long-term effects.
What Is FAFO Parenting?
Popularised by TikTok creators, FAFO parenting encourages parents to step back and allow children to experience the repercussions of their behaviour without immediate intervention. Proponents argue it teaches accountability, while critics warn it may border on neglect.
Psychologists' Reactions
Child development specialists have mixed views. Some suggest that controlled exposure to consequences can build resilience, but others caution that excessive detachment could harm emotional security. 'There's a fine line between fostering independence and emotional abandonment,' says Dr. Emily Carter, a developmental psychologist.
The Viral Debate
Videos tagged #FAFOparenting have amassed millions of views, with parents sharing anecdotes of toddlers learning lessons the 'hard way.' However, child welfare advocates urge caution, emphasising that young children still need guidance and emotional support.
Is FAFO Right for Your Family?
Before adopting any viral trend, experts recommend considering your child's temperament and developmental stage. What works for one family may not suit another—parenting isn't one-size-fits-all.
