A sexuality educator has sparked debate by suggesting parents ask their babies for consent before changing nappies. Deanne Carson, speaking to Australia's ABC News on 8 May, said she works with parents from birth to establish a 'culture of consent' at home. She recommends saying things like 'I’m going to change your nappy now, is that OK?' and waiting for a response through body language or eye contact.
Carson's comments have been widely ridiculed online, with critics questioning the practicality of seeking consent from infants who cannot speak. However, Carson tells BBC Three that her words have been misunderstood. She argues that the practice is about building foundations, similar to reading to babies before they can understand words.
Carson, who works with child protection organisation Body Safety Australia, explains that parents already talk to babies about preferences, such as offering food and waiting for a response. She believes this approach helps children learn that their bodies and voices are respected, leading to healthier relationships in adulthood.
While some may find the idea unusual, proponents argue that it normalises consent from an early age. Whether parents will adopt the practice remains to be seen, but the conversation highlights the importance of teaching consent from childhood.
