Hearing Loss Strains Relationships for Nearly Half of UK Couples, Survey Reveals
A comprehensive new survey has uncovered that hearing loss is significantly impacting personal relationships across Britain, with nearly half of all couples reporting difficulties. The study, conducted by high street opticians Specsavers, surveyed 2,000 couples and found that 48 per cent have at least one partner who is hard of hearing.
Widespread Impact on Daily Interactions
The research reveals troubling patterns in how hearing loss affects everyday communication between partners. One in four respondents admitted that regularly having to repeat themselves has become a source of tension and frustration within their relationship. Many participants reported feeling ignored, misunderstood, or even accused of 'not listening' by their partners, creating emotional distance over time.
Perhaps most concerning is the finding that hearing loss causes one in five couples to feel increasingly disconnected as time passes. This emotional drift appears to stem from the breakdown of simple daily exchanges that form the foundation of intimate relationships.
Low Adoption of Hearing Aids Despite Clear Need
Despite nearly half of couples experiencing hearing difficulties, the survey found that only 15 per cent of those affected currently use hearing aids. This represents a significant gap between the prevalence of hearing problems and the adoption of available solutions.
Paul C Brunson, professional matchmaker and co-host of Channel 4's Married At First Sight, emphasized the importance of clear communication in relationships. 'If you can't hear your partner clearly, you can't truly connect with them,' Brunson explained. 'Intimacy and connection aren't built on grand gestures and lavish gifts – they're built on being heard in the everyday moments. When those exchanges are missed or misunderstood, emotional and physical closeness fades.'
Previous Research Confirms Relationship Impact
These findings align with previous academic research on hearing loss and relationships. A 2021 study involving more than 5,000 couples discovered that when wives experienced hearing loss, their husbands showed increased symptoms of depression. Interestingly, researchers did not find the same effects in wives when husbands reported hearing difficulties, suggesting potential gender differences in how hearing loss impacts relationships.
Academics estimate that up to 18 million people in the UK experience hearing difficulties, with many waiting as long as ten years before seeking professional help. This delay in addressing hearing problems allows relationship strains to develop and deepen over extended periods.
Positive Outcomes with Hearing Aid Use
The survey also revealed encouraging news for couples who have addressed hearing issues. Among partners where one uses a hearing aid, 32 per cent reported improved physical connection and intimacy. This suggests that taking proactive steps to address hearing loss can have measurable positive effects on relationship quality.
Experts Urge Early Intervention
Health professionals are now urging people to get hearing check-ups before relationship strains become severe. 'Many people don't realise their hearing has changed until their partner points it out,' says Sonam Sehemby from Specsavers. 'By then, it may have already affected confidence and day-to-day connection. A hearing check can identify these changes early, helping you stay engaged with what – and who – matters most.'
The message from experts is clear: addressing hearing issues promptly can preserve not just auditory health but the emotional health of relationships as well. With hearing loss affecting millions of Britons and nearly half of all couples, early detection and intervention could prevent unnecessary relationship strain and maintain the intimate connections that form the foundation of lasting partnerships.
