The Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, has shared a brilliant parenting technique that's gaining attention from parents across the UK. Known as the "pacing" method, this simple yet effective approach helps manage children's behaviour with remarkable results.
What is the Pacing Technique?
During a recent visit to a parenting support centre, Kate explained that pacing involves matching a child's energy level before gently guiding them towards calmer behaviour. "If they're being loud or boisterous, you join in with that energy first," she revealed, "then gradually bring them down to where you want them to be."
Why It Works
Child psychologists confirm this method aligns with established developmental principles:
- Creates connection before correction
- Validates children's emotions
- Makes transitions easier
- Reduces power struggles
The technique stems from Kate's studies in early childhood development at the University of St Andrews, where she first met Prince William.
Real-World Application
Parents who've tried pacing report:
- Fewer tantrums during daily routines
- Easier bedtime transitions
- Improved cooperation with requests
One mother shared: "When my three-year-old refuses to leave the park, I now run around with him for two minutes first. The difference is incredible - he leaves willingly when I say it's time."
Royal Parenting Style
This insight offers a rare glimpse into how the Waleses raise Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. While maintaining royal traditions, they clearly incorporate modern parenting approaches.
Early childhood experts praise Kate for highlighting practical techniques that any parent can use, regardless of background or resources.
