For a nation renowned for its love of a good cuppa, a startling revelation has emerged: millions of Brits might be drinking their tea incorrectly. According to a leading etiquette expert, a simple mistake in how we hold our mugs constitutes a significant social blunder.
The Common Cup-Holding Faux Pas
William Hanson, a famed etiquette expert and twice Sunday Times bestselling author, has identified the widespread error. With 3.1 million followers on TikTok and as the host of popular podcasts like Help I Sexted My Boss, Hanson used his platform to correct this everyday mistake.
In a recent video that has amassed 26,800 likes, he demonstrated the proper technique. The key, he explains, is in the grip. "Now remember when you hold a teacup, we pinch with our thumb and index finger between the handle, don't stick your finger in," Hanson instructed. He was referring to the habit of poking a finger through the cup's handle itself.
The Great Pinky Debate and Other Tea Rules
Hanson also tackled a long-standing tea-time myth: the extended pinky finger. Contrary to popular belief, the little finger should not be pointed out. "We don't want to do that pinch instead and the little finger does not extend, it used to mean all sorts of things. Just remember to keep it tucked in," he advised. His caption for the video, referencing the notoriously proper Hyacinth Bucket, read: "This is how Hyacinth would want us to do it!"
The public reaction was swift and humorous. One commenter joked, "When in doubt, pinkie out," while another declared, "My pinky always goes rogue while sipping tea. It means I'm a lady."
The Full Guide to Proper Tea Etiquette
Hanson's guidance extends beyond just holding the cup. There is a comprehensive set of rules for enjoying tea properly. The correct method involves holding the cup by its handle while keeping the saucer firmly on the table. Sips should be quiet and small.
When stirring, use a gentle back-and-forth motion rather than a vigorous swirl. Once finished, the spoon should be placed quietly on the saucer, not left in the cup. It is also crucial to avoid clinking the spoon against the cup and never to sip tea directly from the spoon.
Other critical points of etiquette include:
- Never blow on your tea to cool it down. If it is too hot, allow it to cool naturally.
- Keep your mobile phone out of sight to maintain a polite atmosphere.
- Always use a napkin.
- If adding milk, do so after the tea has been poured to better judge and control the flavour.
The rules differ slightly depending on whether you are seated or standing. If you are seated, your saucer should remain on the table, and you lift only the teacup to drink. If you are standing, hold the teacup in your right hand and the saucer in your left, bringing the saucer up to support the cup as you sip.
So, the next time you reach for your favourite brew, remember that a perfect cuppa is about more than just the blend—it's also about the grace with which you drink it.
