In the latest instalment of The Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, two strangers found common ground over tapas, books, and reggae reggae crisps, leading to a promising connection and an exchange of numbers.
A Memorable Evening Arranged by 'The Universe'
Karyshma, a 27-year-old financial data analyst, met Arun, a 36-year-old radiographer, for a blind date at Parrillan in London's SE1. The popular feature, which has paired strangers for dinner since 2009, facilitated the match. Karyshma, a self-described romantic, said she was hoping for a memorable evening and to escape the 'Hinge monotony' by letting 'the universe (or the Guardian) do some matchmaking'.
First impressions were positive, with Karyshma noting Arun's friendly smile, punctuality, and warmth. Arun was immediately struck by his date's lovely smile and beautiful eyes. Their conversation flowed easily, covering a wide range of topics from family dynamics and travel to film, books, and even a shared appreciation for Reggae Reggae crisps.
Navigating Awkward Moments and Shared Laughs
The pair reported matching each other's energy well and discovering a surprising amount in common. The most awkward moment, they both agreed, was a shared reluctance to finish the last bits of their tapas, leaving the plate on the table until the waitress prompted them. Arun also confessed his terrible sense of direction led them the wrong way to the station, while he felt he became 'a bit too intense' when passionately discussing books.
Both complimented the other's impeccable table manners and good taste. Karyshma's best quality, according to Arun, was her lovely and engaging laugh. For Karyshma, the best thing about Arun was his skill as a conversationalist. 'He listens, responds thoughtfully, and is open about his life and experiences,' she said.
An Abrupt End But A Hopeful Future
The date was cut slightly short due to an unfortunate incident: one of Karyshma's contact lenses fell out. Despite this, Arun walked her to the bus stop and waited with her, a gesture she appreciated. When asked, both confirmed there was no kiss at the end of the evening.
Karyshma rated the experience an 8 out of 10, citing good food and good company, though she noted the venue was quite loud. Arun declined to give a mark, instead offering compliments, but when pressed suggested a '10'. Crucially, both expressed interest in a second meeting. They have exchanged numbers, with Karyshma noting that while there wasn't an 'instant romantic spark', she is 'happy to see how things develop'. Arun was definitive: 'Yes, definitely, I'd be interested to find out more about her.'
The Guardian's Blind Date column continues to seek applicants from across the UK for future pairings, offering a unique alternative to algorithm-driven dating apps.
