In the ever-evolving world of modern dating, a new and troubling trend has emerged, leaving many singles feeling blindsided and emotionally drained. Dubbed as one of the most toxic behaviours in contemporary romance, this trend involves partners suddenly withdrawing affection and communication without explanation.
What Is This Toxic Trend?
Unlike traditional ghosting, where someone disappears entirely, this trend sees individuals gradually pulling away while still maintaining minimal contact. They might respond to messages sporadically or send vague reassurances, keeping their partner hooked but emotionally unsatisfied.
The Psychological Impact
Relationship experts warn that this behaviour can be deeply damaging. "It creates a cycle of hope and disappointment," says Dr. Emily Harper, a psychologist specialising in romantic relationships. "The victim is left questioning their self-worth, often blaming themselves for the lack of commitment."
How to Spot the Red Flags
- Inconsistent communication: They reply days later with excuses but never initiate.
- Avoiding plans: They're always "busy" but never reschedule.
- Mixed signals: Hot-and-cold behaviour keeps you guessing.
What Can You Do?
If you recognise these signs, it's crucial to prioritise your emotional well-being. Set clear boundaries and communicate your needs. If the other person isn't willing to meet you halfway, it may be time to walk away.
Dating should be fun and fulfilling—not a source of anxiety. Don’t let toxic trends dictate your love life.
