A man and his two partners who live together in a committed throuple have shared intimate details about their unconventional life, revealing how what began as a purely sexual experiment transformed into a deep, serious relationship. They discuss their unique sleeping arrangements, the challenges of sharing space, and how their families reacted to their non-traditional setup.
From Experiment to Emotional Commitment
Alana Underwood and Kevin Jankay had been in a monogamous relationship for over three years when Alana confessed to being bi-curious. Surprisingly supportive, Kevin agreed to explore this together. In 2020, they joined a dating site for three-ways and connected with Megan, who was then married to her wife.
After a month of group chatting online, they nervously met for what they anticipated would be a one-off sexual experience. "I was freaking out internally, trying to hold it together," Alana recalled of her first intimate encounter with another woman. "Luckily, Megan was very confident and helped me through it."
A Relationship Deepens Beyond Physicality
Despite their initial plan for a single encounter, they continued meeting for sexual liaisons. Approximately four months later, Megan and her wife separated—a development the trio insists was unrelated to their activities. After a brief pause, they resumed their encounters, gradually realising their feelings had evolved into something much deeper than physical attraction.
By January 2021, they had officially become a throuple and moved in together into Alana and Kevin's apartment. This transition presented immediate practical challenges, notably sharing one bathroom between three people.
Navigating Daily Life as a Trio
Sleeping arrangements required creative solutions. They pushed an air mattress against their Queen-sized bed to accommodate everyone. In a 2023 appearance on This Morning, they explained their "Mac n Cheese method" for rotating who sleeps in the middle—a system named after their initials M, A, K.
"We switch who's in the middle every night," Megan explained. "If Kevin was in the middle last night, I'll be next." Kevin acknowledged the perks and drawbacks, noting, "It's a good thing to be between two beautiful women, but it gets really hot, and when someone needs the bathroom, everyone wakes up."
Emotional Dynamics and Inclusivity
Alana and Kevin were acutely aware of ensuring Megan never felt like an outsider joining an established couple. "We tried to put ourselves in her shoes," Alana said. "There could be jealousy, but we've been very proactive." They learned that true equality in each dyadic relationship within the trio was unrealistic; each bond was unique, with love expressed differently.
Kevin likened their structure to a pyramid, emphasising its strength. "You get double the support and affection," he remarked. "If you're arguing with one person, the other can offer a perspective you might miss in the heat of the moment."
Family Reactions and Social Media Presence
As a sign of their commitment, the throuple recently moved to a larger house in Colorado, complete with multiple bathrooms. However, disclosing their relationship to their parents proved challenging.
Megan's "hippie" mother was immediately accepting. Alana's parents were initially shocked—"their jaws hit the floor"—but eventually came to accept their daughter living with her boyfriend and girlfriend. Kevin faced the toughest reaction; his mother didn't speak to him for two years and still avoids asking about his partners.
Public curiosity prompted them to share their life on social media. Their TikTok account, CampThrouple, garnered 300,000 views overnight with their first video. They now regularly post content and answer followers' questions, aiming to normalise their happiness without preaching.
A Message of Personal Happiness
Megan stresses they don't advocate their lifestyle as superior. "People should do whatever makes them happy and comfortable," she says. "We just want to shine a light on the positive aspects." Their journey from a casual hook-up to a committed throuple illustrates how unconventional relationships can foster profound connection and support.
