Beloved cruise singer and television presenter Jane McDonald has spoken candidly about how profound grief has permanently altered her life, following the devastating loss of both her mother and her fiancé within a short three-year period.
A Painful Double Loss
The Loose Women star's world was shattered when her mother passed away just before Christmas in 2018. This painful blow was compounded shortly afterwards when her partner of 15 years, Eddie Rothe, received a lung cancer diagnosis. Rothe, a drummer for the 1960s band The Searchers, died in 2021 at the age of 67.
Jane and Eddie's love story spanned decades. They first dated in the 1980s when McDonald was just 17, parted ways, and then rekindled their romance in 2008. Eddie proposed later that same year, cementing their lifelong bond.
Embracing a 'New Normal'
In the wake of this traumatic period, the 62-year-old was forced to make significant changes to build a new life. One of the most poignant decisions was selling the £1 million home she had spent years renovating, as the memories within its walls became too painful to bear.
"There was too much history," Jane admitted, explaining the property had become an anchor of sorrow. She has since purchased a smaller house in the same area and a seaside retreat, stating "we all need peace in our lives."
Her living situation transformed completely when her closest friend, fellow singer and Celebrity Gogglebox co-star Sue Ravey, moved in. McDonald describes Sue as her "bezzie mate" and credits her with providing crucial support, even helping her clear "seven skips' worth" of belongings to let go of the past.
New Traditions and Personal Freedom
This new chapter has extended to her traditions and self-perception. Accustomed to hosting large family Christmases, Jane has swapped them for "Friendsmas" celebrations, acknowledging that "times change and you have to change with it." She is consciously creating new traditions while cherishing old memories.
This journey through grief has also liberated her outlook on body image and personal freedom. Jane confesses she hates the gym and "doesn't care" about previous hang-ups, embracing a more accepting attitude towards herself.
Part of her healing process involves pursuing her passion for travel, as seen in her new Channel 5 series, Jane McDonald: From Pole to Pole. Pushed out of her comfort zone, she finds inspiration in adventure and new friendships. In a heartfelt moment from the show, she reflects: "Tomorrow is never promised, and we have got a window. While we are still well and fit, we can do a paddleboard and fall in and get back up."
Jane McDonald's story is ultimately one of resilience. By embracing change, leaning on friendship, and seeking new experiences, she has navigated a path through crippling grief towards a redefined, hopeful future.
