Woman earning £156k says she's not wealthy, bans M&S and Botox to buy London home
Woman earning £156k says she's not wealthy, bans M&S and Botox to buy London home

A 33-year-old woman earning £156,000 a year has described herself as a 'HENRY' – high earner, not rich yet – and has stopped shopping at M&S and having Botox to save for a house. Amelia Brown, a head of growth in tech from Stoke Newington, London, says she takes home £6,924 a month after tax and pension and aims to save £200,000 in two years for a three-bed freehold home with a garden.

Ms Brown, who moved from Australia to the UK in 2024, increased her salary from £45,000 to £156,000 over a decade. She considers herself fortunate but not wealthy because she has not accumulated assets or wealth. She said: 'I think if I was on my salary in other parts of the country it would be crazy but… I didn’t think it would be a relatively normal lifestyle.'

To accelerate her savings, Ms Brown has banned herself from buying new clothes, stopped Botox, reduced travel, deferred buying a car, and cut out M&S entirely. She also monetises online content, boosting her income by 20 per cent last month. She uses the 'pay yourself first' method, saving or investing everything after covering monthly costs.

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Ms Brown said she is striving to avoid the common wisdom of buying a starter home, instead aiming for her 'forever home' directly to avoid additional costs like stamp duty. With £35,000 already saved, she plans to max out her ISA and be tax-efficient with her pension and savings.

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