In a remarkably candid personal essay, prominent libertarian commentator and Reason magazine senior editor Robby Soave has publicly revealed his bisexuality and details of his open marriage with his ex-wife.
The disclosure, which has sent ripples through political and media circles, explains that Soave and his former spouse, Lindsay, mutually agreed to an open relationship structure years before their eventual divorce, a arrangement that continues to this day.
'We loved each other very much, but something was missing,' Soave wrote, reflecting on the early days of his marriage. This realisation led to an honest conversation where both parties consented to explore relationships outside their marriage.
A New Chapter with a Male Partner
Central to his revelation is his current long-term relationship with a man named Henry. Soave describes Henry as his 'boyfriend' and a significant part of his life, illustrating a chapter of his life that was previously kept private from the public eye.
He emphasised that his ex-wife, Lindsay, is fully aware and supportive of this relationship, underscoring the unconventional but amicable nature of their continued bond.
Navigating Public and Private Identity
Soave, known for his sharp political and cultural analysis, acknowledged the potential surprise his announcement may cause among his audience and readers. He stated that his primary motivation for coming forward was a desire for authenticity, wanting his public persona to align with his private reality.
'I am who I am,' he asserted, pushing back against any potential criticism from both conservative and progressive factions. The essay serves as a nuanced look at the complexities of modern relationships, sexuality, and personal freedom—a topic often debated in his professional work.
The reaction online has been mixed, with many praising his honesty and bravery, while others have questioned the dynamics of his personal arrangements. Despite this, Soave appears resolute in his decision to live his truth openly.
