In a heartwarming twist of fate, Ursula, a 29-year-old events coordinator, and Culann, a 34-year-old charity worker, recently embarked on a blind date that left both parties thoroughly charmed. Their evening, filled with laughter and connection, has become a standout example of how modern dating can still spark genuine romance.
First Impressions and Initial Conversations
Ursula's first impressions of Culann were overwhelmingly positive. She described him as warm and friendly, with an excellent sweater vest and a name that caught her attention. Their conversation flowed effortlessly, covering a wide array of topics that revealed their personalities and shared interests.
Topics of Discussion
The pair delved into numerous subjects, including:
- The entire Bridget Jones film series, from the first to the fourth instalment.
- The trials and tribulations of being a 13-year-old, offering a nostalgic look back at adolescence.
- What they would tell their colleagues about their evening, hinting at the playful nature of their date.
- Books that Ursula buys for her stepdad, showcasing her thoughtful side.
- Musical tastes, with mentions of Pulp and Scissor Sisters.
- Discussions about their actual sisters, adding a personal touch to the conversation.
- A light-hearted debate on when a toastie qualifies as a pie.
- The origins of Garibaldi biscuits in Bermondsey, blending food history with local trivia.
Awkward Moments and Table Manners
Ursula admitted that her most awkward moment was all the times I tried to speak with my mouth full, but she noted that Culann didn't mind at all. Their table manners were impeccable, as they agreed to share everything and order generously, thanks to the Guardian's sponsorship of the date.
Mutual Admiration and Connection
Ursula praised Culann as great to chat to, highlighting his understanding nature and willingness to indulge in her tangents and theories. She described him in three words as an absolute delight and expressed confidence that her friends would get along well with him, albeit with a hint of jealousy.
On his part, Culann was equally smitten. His first impression of Ursula was Wow! Very attractive and very punctual. He found her sense of humour, love for south London, and hair particularly endearing. He described her in three words as gorgeous, funny and chatty, and he would absolutely introduce her to his friends.
Post-Date Activities and Future Plans
The date didn't end with dinner. Ursula and Culann went on to have a couple of drinks at a pub around the corner. When asked if they kissed, Ursula confirmed with a simple yes, while Culann coyly remarked, We had a nice evening. Both gave high marks for the experience: Ursula rated it a perfect 10 out of 10, and Culann gave a coy 9.
Most importantly, they are planning to meet again. As Culann put it, Numbers have been exchanged and dates have been suggested, indicating a promising start to a potential relationship.
Background on the Blind Date Column
This encounter is part of the Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, which has been pairing strangers for dinner and drinks since 2009. Each week, two individuals are matched based on their interests and preferences, with the results published in Saturday magazine and online. The column aims to provide a fun, respectful platform for dating, with participants sharing their experiences through a set of standard questions.
Applicants are asked about their age, location, occupation, hobbies, and what they are looking for in a partner. While matches are blind, the more information provided, the better the potential connection. The column features first names, jobs, and ages, with answers edited for length and clarity. It is open to UK residents, with many applicants from London, but welcomes people from across the country.
To apply for a future blind date, interested individuals can email blind.date@theguardian.com. Ursula and Culann's successful evening at Oui Madame in London N1 serves as an inspiring example of what can happen when two strangers take a chance on love.
