Actress Alice Evans has disclosed that she was not invited to her late father's funeral, as she paid a heartfelt tribute to her brother Tony on what she described as his 'heavenly birthday' this Tuesday. The 57-year-old star has endured a profoundly traumatic period, having announced the passing of her father David in March, merely six months after her brother Tony died at the age of 55.
Family Exclusion and Emotional Tributes
In a poignant Instagram post, Alice shared that her beloved father had been cremated, and she was not offered the opportunity to attend the service. She revealed that only 'extended family and friends' were invited to deliver speeches in his honour. The actress expressed that this news would have 'finished' her cherished brother, as she posted a gallery of photographs capturing moments with him.
Alice wrote: 'Bro.... I am a mess. I came here to wish you your first heavenly birthday, April 21st, 2026. You would have turned 56. I've spent hours looking at pictures to find the ones I think will most represent you and I have lost my mind. I miss you!! I miss you so much! I miss our daily talks and texts! How am I supposed to go on living without you? That's all.'
Impact on Her Daughters and Plea for Kindness
She added that her daughters also miss Tony immensely, noting that he had stepped up as a father figure to them before his sudden departure. Alice emphasised the importance of kindness during times of grief, stating: 'To everyone: grief sucks. Early loss sucks. We need to be nice to each other. Kindness is the only way.'
Reflecting on the funeral exclusion, she continued: 'Bro - our Dad was cremated on Friday. None of his children were invited. Speeches were made by extended family and friends. I'm SO GLAD you didn't have to know that. So so glad. You are the most empathetic person I have ever met and that would have finished you. I will love you for ever and ever and ever. Sis.'
Ongoing Personal Struggles
Alice had previously shared that she was in a 'dark hole' after losing both her father and brother. Despite this, she managed to meet with her cousin for drinks this week, describing it as therapeutic to discuss her loved ones with someone who truly knew them. She expressed gratitude for the supportive messages from followers, which have helped her through the 'horror of these past six months.'
The actress explained that she and her daughters feel quite isolated from family, having endured multiple blows. She acknowledged her Instagram community for their unwavering support, saying: 'I feel so lucky. Honestly, you are all getting us through it and I will never stop being grateful to you all.'
Previous Losses and Tributes
In March, Alice shared the heartbreaking news of her brother Tony's passing, calling him her 'best friend' and a 'beloved uncle' to her two daughters. She wrote: 'I can’t believe I'm writing this. On Thursday, at 6.42pm, our beloved Tone left this earth. My brother, my best friend, the most incredible husband to Rachel, and beloved Uncle Tone to my girls.'
She praised Tony as the 'kindest, most loyal, funniest, warm person' and highlighted the deep bond between him and his wife Rachel. Following his death, Alice described being 'overwhelmed' with grief and feeling 'in limbo' while awaiting travel arrangements to the UK for his funeral.
Legal Battles with Ex-Husband
This family tragedy comes amid a bitter court battle with her ex-husband, actor Ioan Gruffudd. Recently, Ioan secured a significant legal victory as a judge ruled to renew a domestic violence restraining order against Alice for five years. During the trial, Alice confessed to bombarding social media with derogatory and false posts about Ioan and his new wife, Bianca Wallace, expressing shame and regret for her actions.
However, Judge Michael Convey did not accept her attempts at contrition, citing multiple violations of the original restraining order. He described her behaviour as a 'concerted, focused, intentional and caustic campaign of denigration' that caused Ioan to fear for his and Bianca's safety. The judge noted that her actions threatened Ioan's ability to provide for their children.
Background of the Divorce and Current Situation
Alice and Ioan split in early 2021, finalising a messy divorce in 2023. They have been engaged in a contentious dispute over finances and custody of their daughters, Ella, 16, and Elsie, 12. In April last year, Ioan married Bianca, who gave birth to their daughter, Mila, in November.
Throughout these challenges, Alice has emphasised the importance of support and kindness, urging others to be compassionate during difficult times. Her candid sharing of grief and legal struggles continues to resonate with many, highlighting the complexities of personal loss and public scrutiny.
