What song would you choose for your final curtain call? The answer, for a growing number of Brits, is becoming a deeply personal and often surprising part of end-of-life planning. A major new study from Co-op Funeralcare, one of the UK's largest funeral providers, has lifted the lid on the nation's ultimate playlist, revealing a fascinating blend of timeless classics, pop anthems, and even comedy tracks.
The Undisputed Champions of Farewell
Analysing thousands of funerals arranged in 2023, the data crowns Frank Sinatra's "My Way" as the perennial number one. Its message of a life lived on one's own terms continues to resonate powerfully. Not far behind, the operatic prowess of Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman's "Time To Say Goodbye" provides a soaring and emotional second choice.
Modern Ballads Break into the Top Ten
The list isn't solely reserved for the classics. Ed Sheeran's poignant "Supermarket Flowers", a raw tribute to his late grandmother, has made a significant impact, landing at number three. This signals a shift towards more contemporary and personally significant music, reflecting the individual's life and tastes rather than traditional expectations.
The Lighter Side of Saying Goodbye
In a characteristically British twist, humour has found its place in remembrance. The report highlights a notable rise in more unconventional choices, with Monty Python's "Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life" consistently ranking highly. This trend towards uplifting and celebratory music underscores a broader cultural move towards funerals that focus on celebration rather than solely on mourning.
Other notable entries in the top ten include:
- Eva Cassidy - "Over the Rainbow"
- Shirley Bassey - "You'll Never Walk Alone"
- Vera Lynn - "We'll Meet Again"
- Westlife - "You Raise Me Up"
- Wiz Khalifa & Charlie Puth - "See You Again"
David Collingwood, Director of Funerals at Co-op, noted, "Music is now a fundamental part of a funeral service, often chosen to perfectly reflect the personality of the person. We're seeing a real move away from traditional hymns towards songs that tell a story about the individual's life, their passions, and their character. It's a beautiful way to personalise a farewell."
This evolution in musical choice reflects a significant shift in how the UK approaches death and remembrance, prioritising personalisation and celebration to create a unique and memorable tribute for loved ones.
