Fans of pop superstar Selena Gomez have expressed their disappointment online after an old video resurfaced, appearing to show her now-husband, music producer Benny Blanco, acting in an 'unchivalrous' manner.
The Viral Video That Sparked Outrage
The clip, which was spliced together from several older outings and shared on social media, captures the couple navigating their exit from various events while trying to avoid the paparazzi. In one particular segment, Gomez is seen opening the car door herself and stepping aside, allowing Blanco to enter the vehicle first. Another moment shows Blanco getting out of the car and walking ahead without waiting for his wife.
The footage quickly went viral on platform X, formerly Twitter, where one user commented, "The way she opened the door and Benny Blanco went in instead of letting her...". This single observation ignited a fierce debate among fans and followers, with many labelling Blanco's actions as a significant "red flag" for the relationship.
A Divided Fanbase: Criticism and Defence
The online reaction was sharply divided. One critic succinctly stated, "Women are more chivalrous these days," summing up the feeling of those who found Blanco's behaviour lacking. However, a strong contingent of fans rushed to the couple's defence, offering practical explanations for what was captured on film.
Several theories emerged to justify Blanco getting into the car first. One popular argument suggested that the passenger-side back seat is statistically the safest spot in a vehicle, implying he was taking the less protected position. Another supporter noted, "Guys go in first so the lady doesn't have to scoot to the other side. I doubt it's more than that."
Others pointed to the context of a "heated moment" with paparazzi or claimed that in one instance, a bodyguard had instructed Blanco to get in the car while Gomez was speaking to a fan.
Beyond the Drama: A 'Dream' Marriage
Despite the online furore, the reality of Gomez and Blanco's relationship appears to be overwhelmingly positive. The Rare Beauty founder confirmed her relationship with the 37-year-old producer in December 2023, and the couple got engaged a year later. They tied the knot in a lavish ceremony in September.
In a recent appearance on The Zach Lowe Show podcast, Gomez gushed about her new life as a married woman. When Lowe congratulated her on finding happiness, an elated Gomez replied, "I definitely can agree to that. It has been such a dream so far."
She added, "And I know it'll come with ebbs and flows, but [he's] the most beautiful person I could do that with." Her joyful comments suggest that, regardless of fan perceptions from brief video clips, the singer is thoroughly content in her marriage to Blanco.
