A relationship expert has issued a stark warning to singles about a new dating trend that's even more harmful than ghosting. Known as "orbiting," this behaviour leaves individuals emotionally stranded while their ex or romantic interest lingers on the periphery of their life.
What Is Orbiting?
Unlike ghosting, where someone suddenly cuts off all communication, orbiting involves an ex or romantic interest maintaining a passive presence in your life—liking social media posts, viewing stories, or sending occasional messages—without any real intention of rekindling the relationship.
Why It's Worse Than Ghosting
According to the expert, orbiting creates false hope and emotional confusion. "Ghosting is painful, but at least it's a clean break," they explain. "Orbiting keeps you in limbo, making it harder to move on."
How to Spot the Signs
- They watch your Instagram stories but never reply to texts.
- They like old posts but avoid meaningful conversations.
- They send sporadic, vague messages with no follow-through.
Protecting Yourself
If you suspect you're being orbited, the expert advises setting firm boundaries. "Mute or block them if necessary," they suggest. "Your emotional well-being should always come first."
With modern dating becoming increasingly complex, recognising these red flags early can save you from unnecessary heartache.
