BBC Radio 2 presenter Sara Cox is pushing through the agony of a monumental 135-mile run, driven by the traumatic memories of the horrific bullying she endured as a teenager at school.
The Bullying That Shaped Her
Sara Cox has opened up about the cruel and sustained intimidation she faced after joining a new school at the age of 12. The bullying began almost immediately and, she recalls, was often subtle enough to initially go unnoticed by teachers. "The worst bit was they held my hands behind my back and shoved an ice cream in my face in the playground," she recounted during a past appearance on ITV's Lorraine.
She described a constant state of anxiety, worrying about being tripped in the corridor or being the subject of malicious whispers in class. "It was that mild intimidation, being a bit worried about walking along the corridor in case you get tripped up, the whispering in class. It is horrible," she said. When she first tried to report the two girls who were targeting her, she felt she wasn't believed because she was the new girl. It was only when a teacher finally witnessed an incident that the severity of the situation was understood.
An Unexpected Revenge and Lasting Closure
Years later, after Sara had become a hugely successful Radio 1 presenter, she experienced an unexpected form of closure. One of the women who had bullied her at school contacted her, asking for a shoutout on her radio show. "That says to me that she didn't really realise the effect that she was having," Sara reflected. Instead of granting the request, she used her platform to dedicate an entire segment to describing how awful that period of her life had been.
She admitted with a laugh, "I wouldn't do that now. It kind of felt good at the time. It was perhaps a nice closure on it all." This personal history has now translated into a powerful source of motivation for her current physical ordeal.
The Gruelling Challenge for a Cause
That motivation is fuelling Sara Cox through one of her toughest challenges yet: the 135-mile Great Northern Marathon for Children in Need. The epic run takes her across Northumberland, Durham, North Yorkshire, and West Yorkshire. She has stated that thinking about "projects that help with kids who might be feeling bullied or anxious" is what keeps her putting one foot in front of the other.
The physical toll has been immense. Sara has confessed, "There's an adjective short of 'hell'… I'm so puffy, I've never seen my ankles look like this." Her colleague Scott Mills revealed on air that she is "really struggling" and battling high anxiety about finishing. Despite the pain and exhaustion, her efforts have been staggeringly successful. The fundraiser has now brought in over £5 million, a sum announced live on Radio 2.
By channelling her painful past into this extraordinary physical feat, Sara Cox is ensuring that her experience now serves as a lifeline for other children suffering from bullying and anxiety, turning her childhood hell into a force for immense good.