That well-meaning ‘thumbs up’ after a delicious meal or the instinct to form an orderly queue might feel as British as a cup of tea, but abroad, these ingrained habits can land you in hot water. A deep dive into global etiquette reveals that many behaviours Brits consider polite are actually serious faux pas in other cultures.
The Gestures That Get You in Trouble
Perhaps the most surprising revelation is the humble ‘thumbs up’. While in the UK it signals approval, in parts of the Middle East, West Africa, and South America, it is a crude insult equivalent to a raised middle finger. Similarly, the ‘OK’ sign made with the thumb and forefinger is considered highly offensive in Greece, Turkey, and Brazil.
Dining Disasters
The British tendency to clean one's plate to show appreciation for a meal can also backfire spectacularly. In China, the Philippines, and Russia, an empty plate signals to your host that they did not provide enough food and that you are still hungry. Leaving a small amount of food is the polite way to indicate you are perfectly satisfied.
The Queue Conundrum
Our national obsession with orderly queuing doesn't always translate. In countries like India and China, forming a neat, single-file line is not the norm. Attempting to enforce this can be seen as aggressive and confrontational. It’s often a case of going with the flow of the local crowd.
Tipping and Bargaining Blunders
Financial transactions are a minefield. Leaving a tip in Japan is a serious social error, as it implies the server’s base salary is insufficient. Conversely, not haggling in a market in Morocco or Egypt is seen as a missed social interaction and can even be viewed as rude. Knowing the local custom is essential to avoid causing offence.
How to Be a Culturally Savvy Traveller
- Research is key: Spend 30 minutes before your trip learning a few basic dos and don’ts for your destination.
- Observe and imitate: Watch how locals interact with each other in cafes, shops, and on public transport.
- When in doubt, ask: A polite question about local custom is always better than an assumption.
- Apologise if you slip up: A genuine ‘sorry’ for a cultural mistake is universally understood and appreciated.
Ultimately, the goal isn't to be perfect but to be mindful. A little awareness goes a long way in ensuring your travels are remembered for the right reasons, turning potential blunders into opportunities for genuine connection.
