Woman Details Terrifying Stalking by Mailman Who Used Job to Track Her
A young woman has provided a chilling account of how her mailman transformed from a routine delivery person into a persistent stalker, leveraging his position to invade her privacy over several months. The 23-year-old resident, who lives in a pleasant apartment complex, described the escalating encounters that began with a seemingly normal package delivery.
From Friendly Delivery to Frightening Confrontation
The situation started when the mailman, described as a man in his thirties with dishevelled thin hair, rang her doorbell while she was working from home. "I opened the door, smiled, and said 'thanks so much' and went to take the package," she recalled in a Reddit thread. "He stopped and stared at me like something was wrong."
When she asked if he needed to photograph the delivery, his response sent chills down her spine. "I know you. I've seen you before," he declared. As her body language shifted to discomfort, he continued: "I've seen your name on your mail, I found you on Instagram." Despite her private account settings, he admitted she was "a person of interest" on the platform because she was "pretty." The woman quickly slammed and locked her door, her face having gone "white and froze" during the exchange.
Escalating Visits Without Deliveries
The mailman's behaviour intensified days later when he returned without any parcels. "He rang the bell about ten times," she said. Through her doorbell intercom, she told him to leave any mail, but he responded: "I actually don't have any mail for you today, I just wanted to say hi. Can I come in for a glass of water?" She remained silent, unsure how to react.
The situation reached a new level when her boyfriend was present. The mailman arrived, rang repeatedly, and when the boyfriend answered, asked: "Where's the small girl who lives here?" Noting the mailman had nothing in his hands, the boyfriend firmly instructed him to leave packages downstairs before slamming the door.
Continued Harassment After Relationship Ended
After the couple's relationship ended months later, the mailman reappeared. As they crossed paths in the building, he followed her and inquired: "Hey I haven't seen that guy in a while who used to live with you. Did he move out?" Panicking, she lied that her boyfriend was "around" and called out "Hey honey, I'm home" as she entered her apartment, instinctively creating the impression she wasn't alone.
Taking Protective Measures and Reporting
The woman took multiple steps to protect herself and address the situation. She contacted her property manager, who implemented a new policy restricting mail personnel to designated mail rooms rather than allowing them to roam the complex. She also purchased large men's work boots from a thrift shop to place outside her door, creating the appearance of a male resident.
Reporting to authorities proved crucial. She filed reports with both the post office and local police, providing video evidence from her Ring camera. Authorities assigned a new mailman to her route and are investigating the matter.
Community Response and Safety Advice
Her story resonated widely, with many commenters emphasizing the seriousness of stalking behaviour. One woman cautioned: "As long as he thinks you have a man in the house, he will leave you alone but there's really no guarantee. I've had a stalker before and sometimes they escalate."
Others offered practical suggestions for deterring unwanted attention:
- Regularly moving men's boots to simulate use
- Using male names for occasional online orders
- Avoiding politeness that might encourage further contact
One commenter summarized the concerning dynamic: "He's being a creepy stalker using his job to keep tabs on you. Never ever gaslight yourself to accommodate a man, it's his feelings versus your safety."
The woman's experience highlights how positions of trust can be exploited for harassment, underscoring the importance of vigilance and prompt reporting when boundaries are violated.
