In the latest instalment of The Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, two strangers, Toby and Liam, both aged 29, were paired up for an evening of dinner and drinks at Erev in London's Notting Hill. The feature, which has been a staple since 2009, offers a candid glimpse into the world of modern dating through the eyes of participants who spill the beans on their encounters.
A Meeting of Minds with Meme Mishaps
Toby, working as a data analyst, entered the date with no expectations, while Liam, a civil servant, hoped to become a "marmalade dropper" in the Saturday Guardian. First impressions were mixed: Toby found Liam somewhat shy, whereas Liam was struck by Toby's resemblance to singer El DeBarge in Notting Hill.
Conversation and Awkward Moments
The duo covered a wide range of topics, from favourite films, music, and books to the introspective nature of queer men. However, the most awkward moment arose when Liam referenced the "six seven" meme. Toby noted, "We're two generations too old for it and I had no idea how to react," highlighting a generational gap in pop culture references.
Table manners were described as somewhat feral, with both eagerly devouring the delicious food. Despite this, Liam praised Toby's impeccable manners, and Toby appreciated Liam's attentive and kind nature, describing him as "Attentive, kind, Scottish" in three words.
Reflections and Romantic Spark
When it came to compatibility, both agreed there was a lack of romantic spark. Toby enjoyed the experience but felt they weren't compatible, refusing to give a numerical score. Liam rated the evening a solid 7, citing great food and fun chat, but noted that more romantic connection would have improved it.
Post-date, they called it a night without a kiss, and while Liam proposed comparing notes on marks, Toby declined, fearing it might spoil the fun. Liam wondered if this led to self-censorship during the date.
Would They Meet Again?
Both were open to meeting again platonically. Liam suggested a run and coffee, but not romantically, and Toby thought his friends would enjoy hearing the story of his Guardian blind date. The evening ended on a friendly note, with no plans for a second romantic outing.
How Blind Date Works
The Guardian's Blind Date column pairs strangers based on interests and preferences, though participants cannot choose their match. It features first names, jobs, and ages, with answers edited for length. Applicants must be in the UK, and many come from London, though others are welcome. To apply, email blind.date@theguardian.com.
This date serves as a reminder that while not every encounter leads to romance, it can still be an enjoyable and memorable experience, filled with quirky conversations and cultural references.
