Ellen Pompeo has offered a deeply personal insight into her reaction upon learning about her former Grey's Anatomy colleague Eric Dane's amyotrophic lateral sclerosis diagnosis. The actress, renowned for her portrayal of Dr. Meredith Grey, participated in a pre-recorded message for the ALS Network Champions for Cures & Care Gala, where she recounted the poignant moment she connected with Dane.
An Instant Bond and Immediate Support
Pompeo, 56, reflected on her instant connection with Dane when he joined the medical drama in its second season, famously playing Dr. Mark Sloan, nicknamed 'McSteamy'. 'I remember when he came in as McSteamy and us having instant electric chemistry, and I immediately just fell in love with him,' she confessed in her video message, which was shared with attendees at the recent event.
The moment she became aware of his ALS diagnosis, which Dane publicly disclosed in April of last year, Pompeo did not hesitate to reach out. 'As soon as I heard about his diagnosis, I texted him, and I said, "I'm here if you want to speak." And my phone rang 30 seconds later,' she revealed. During that heartfelt call, she assured her former co-star of her unwavering support, telling him, 'whatever you need, however I can help. I love you.'
Industry Recognition and Physical Challenges
Dane was honoured with the Advocate of the Year Award at the gala for his significant efforts in raising awareness about ALS. However, due to the 'physical realities' of the debilitating condition, he was unable to attend the ceremony in person. A spokesperson for the ALS Network issued a statement acknowledging this, expressing profound gratitude for his 'courage, advocacy, and continued commitment to the ALS community.' Broadway star Aaron Lazar accepted the award on Dane's behalf.
In her taped tribute, Pompeo conveyed a personal message to Dane, stating, 'I'm really proud of you. I love you so much and I am honored to get to speak about you today.' The actress has been a central figure on Grey's Anatomy since its 2005 premiere, while Dane joined in 2006 and departed after his character's death in a season nine plane crash.
Co-Stars Extend Support and Admiration
Other former colleagues from the long-running series have also publicly shared their support for Dane. Kate Walsh, who played his love interest Addison Montgomery, described the situation as 'so painful' and 'really sad' in a recent interview. 'I've reached out and sent my love and support and strength. It's so heartbreaking,' she said, adding that Dane is 'a beautiful person' and 'an incredible man.' Walsh noted she has had other friends battle the disease, calling it 'horrific,' and keeps Dane and his family in her prayers.
Patrick Dempsey, another former Grey's Anatomy star, provided an update on Dane's condition, mentioning he tries to stay in touch. 'It's very hard for him, but I do try to stay in touch and see how he's doing,' Dempsey explained. He revealed an attempt to include Dane in his new thriller series, but the progression of ALS made it 'virtually impossible.' Despite this, Dempsey praised Dane's courage, humour, and intelligence, stating, 'He's been incredibly courageous in the face of this horrible disease. He's such a wonderful human being.'
Advocacy and Future Projects
Dane has continued his advocacy work, recently taking on a guest role as a firefighter with ALS in an episode of Brilliant Minds. Furthermore, it was announced late last year that he is writing a memoir titled Book of Days: A Memoir in Moments, scheduled for publication in 2026 through Maria Shriver's The Open Field imprint. The book will detail his challenges living with ALS.
Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis is a progressive nervous system disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord, leading to loss of muscle control. The ALS Network highlighted that through his advocacy, Dane has brought 'international attention to ALS,' aiding their mission to support affected families. In response to receiving the award, Dane expressed that it 'is more than an honor – it is a reflection of the incredible strength and courage I see in the ALS community every day.'
