A British family has opened up about their life-changing decision to sell almost everything they owned and start a new chapter in Thailand. Jasmine Riam, a mother of two, along with her husband, made the bold move from the UK, driven by a desire for more family time and an improved quality of life.
The Catalyst for Change: Escaping the UK Grind
Jasmine explained that the choice to relocate was not made lightly. The couple felt trapped in a cycle where her husband worked incredibly hard, yet by month's end, they were often left with little money and even less precious time together as a family. They had a nice life in the UK, but the weather, rising costs, and a growing sense of wanting more began to weigh heavily on them. The final clarity came after a period of prayer, coinciding with a slowdown in her husband's UK work, which they took as a sign to take the leap.
Embracing a New Life in Southeast Asia
For Jasmine, being half-Thai made the dream of moving feel more attainable. Having only experienced Thailand on holidays while growing up in the UK, she felt a deep cultural pull. Her husband's shared love for the country solidified their plans. They highlighted the incredibly friendly people, far more affordable living, beautiful weather, and abundant family activities as key draws. Their daily routine is now transformed, featuring gym sessions, long beach walks with the children, and relaxing massages, contributing to a much slower, more peaceful pace of life.
"We've had so much more quality time together as a family, and it's been such a gift," Jasmine said. "We're feeling refreshed, grounded, and grateful." She noted that the constant rush has been replaced by a sense of relaxation and presence, with the mental load finally lifting.
The Practicalities and Sacrifices of a Fresh Start
The relocation process moved quickly, taking about six months from decision to departure. To fund the move, they committed fully by selling their car, personal belongings, and even their son's quad bike. Jasmine sold clothes on platforms like Vinted and made substantial charity donations. This drastic decluttering left them with savings of roughly between £5,000 and £10,000, a process she described as "incredibly freeing."
The most challenging aspect was leaving close family behind in the UK, a heartbreaking step mitigated by regular video calls and planned visits. On a practical note, Jasmine advised that while Thailand is more affordable, rent remains the biggest cost and daily expenses can add up if you're not careful. She stressed the importance of having correct visas and paperwork, and respecting the local culture.
Her ultimate advice for others considering a similar move is decisive: "Go for it. Change is the catalyst... If it doesn't work out, what's the worst that can happen? Be wise and prepared... Stay humble, stay grounded, and enjoy the process."
