A new study suggests that sex can be more fulfilling for people over 80 than for those in middle age. Researchers from Manchester University found that while physical challenges increase with age, emotional satisfaction and compatibility often improve.
Dr David Lee, a research fellow at Manchester University’s School of Social Sciences, describes sexually active over-80s as 'sexual survivors'. In a report co-authored with Professor Josie Tetley, using data from the English Longitudinal Study of Ageing, Lee notes that older people reported greater sexual compatibility and emotional closeness compared to those in their 50s, 60s and 70s.
Sex is not defined solely by penetration, Lee says. Many older people adapt by focusing on kissing, cuddling and general intimacy. The study kept a broad definition of sex, capturing adaptive behaviours among older participants.
However, having an active sex life in one’s 80s is not common. Only about one in 10 women aged 85 or older, and nearly a quarter of men that age, are sexually active. Lee says these individuals are a minority but interesting because they appear happy with their sex lives.
Factors that contribute to being a 'sexual survivor' include having a partner and being in good health. Medication can interfere with sex drive and ability. Lee emphasises the need for joined-up healthcare services that older people can access without facing dismissal or ageist attitudes.
