Blind date: 'I accidentally called her Melissa'

James, 34, a researcher, and Michelle, 30, a radio presenter, were paired for a blind date at Duchy restaurant in London EC2. Their evening included conversation about Birmingham, madeleines, reality TV, music, comedy, dancing and football.

First impressions and awkward moments

James hoped for an unforgettable evening and found Michelle glamorous. His most awkward moment came when he accidentally called her Melissa. He praised her table manners, despite her asking him to try steak tartare after he mentioned being vegetarian. He described her as easy-going and forgiving, and would introduce her to his friends, summing her up as "chilled, creative, bougie."

Michelle hoped to meet someone genuinely interesting who could hold a great conversation. She found James warm with a relaxed energy that put her at ease. They talked about their mutual love for discovering great music. Her only awkward moment came at the end of the date when one of her heels broke off.

Conversation and connection

James thought Michelle would have found him chatty and mildly funny, noting a couple of his jokes didn't land. They did not go on anywhere else, as it was a Tuesday night past his bedtime. He does not kiss on a first date. If he could change one thing, it would be the timing, as he was tired after work and missed the Champions League games on TV.

Michelle described James as wonderfully articulate, making for engaging and thoughtful conversation. She thought he would get on well with her friends and described him as "vibrant, smart, ambitious." She believed he found her bubbly, fun and naturally gregarious. They stayed at the restaurant for the evening and did not kiss. She would swap her footwear if she could change one thing.