Rafia Afi, a 31-year-old from Kerala, has founded India's first 'divorce camp' to help women who are divorced, separated, widowed, or suffering in relationships. The retreats aim to normalise divorce and give it dignity, challenging societal stigma.
Held in scenic locations like the misty hills of Vagamon and the backwaters of Alappuzha, the two-day camps accommodate 15–20 women and cost from 1,700 rupees (£15), with free spots for those in need. Activities include hiking, dancing, music, and storytelling sessions in a safe, non-judgmental space.
Afi, who went through her own divorce last year, says many women lack support systems and face judgment. 'Too many people see separation as shameful, choosing death over divorce,' she said. 'Society romanticises silent suffering and that’s dangerous.'
Musician and lawyer Zaki J, whose mother died at her father's hands, provides legal advice at the camps, educating women on their rights and safety laws. 'Many blamed themselves for breaking up their families by contemplating divorce,' she said. 'The objective is to break societal norms around gender abuse.'
Participants report transformative experiences. Surya Kalarikkal said: 'My marriage was traumatic and the divorce difficult. I had forgotten how to smile from the heart. But at the camp, we cried, we laughed, and I let out all my emotions for the first time in 15 years.' Another attendee, Shifna, added: 'I now feel motivated to move forward with my life.'
According to India's National Family Health Survey, 32% of married women aged 18–49 have experienced domestic violence. Afi hopes the camps will empower women to leave abusive marriages and reclaim their lives.
