Tipping demands have grown more and more intense over the years, leaving many Americans wondering when to leave gratuity and when not to. It seems the list of occurrences when tips are not warranted is dwindling rapidly, but there are a number of services and experiences you do not have to splurge extra cash on.
When Tipping Is Not Necessary
FinanceBuzz compiled a list of these rare occasions, outlining just when it is acceptable to close your wallet. First and foremost, just because the iPad screen asks you to select a tip does not mean it is mandatory. If you have only purchased a mere coffee or pastry to go, or if you have served yourself at a frozen yogurt shop, a tip is not necessary as you have not really been waited on. If you are feeling generous, of course you may tip, but do not be intimidated by the tip screen.
Takeout Orders
Another misconception in today's day and age of tipping is that you need to leave a tip on takeout orders. You do not! The one possible exception to this is if you are picking up food from a sit-in restaurant, in which case leaving a few dollars is customary.
Weddings with Open Bar
According to FinanceBuzz, it is not 100 percent necessary to tip at weddings with an open bar. While bartenders usually leave out a jar for gratuity, the bride and groom have likely already tipped them for their service.
Educators
Another instance of unnecessary tipping is with educators. If you would like to thank a teacher, keep in mind that some may feel uncomfortable accepting cash gifts, and certain schools have policies limiting the value of gifts teachers can receive. If a teacher has made a meaningful impact on you or your child, a small token of appreciation, such as a thoughtful gift or gift card, is usually appropriate.
Healthcare Professionals
As tipping becomes more common in unexpected places, some people even wonder whether they should tip at a doctor's office. In general, there is no need to tip doctors, even if you have been seeing them for years or are receiving specialized care. The same applies to nurses and other healthcare professionals.
Retail Employees
Retail employees are also not typically tipped. Most retail workers earn an hourly wage or salary, so tipping is not considered part of the transaction. In some stores, employees may earn commissions, which is why cashiers sometimes ask whether someone assisted you while shopping.
Lawyers and Accountants
Lawyers are another group of professionals who generally should not be tipped, especially since their services are usually billed at a high hourly rate. However, if you have worked closely with a lawyer over time or want to express appreciation for significant help, such as negotiating a contract or helping with a home purchase, a small non-cash gift can be a thoughtful gesture. The same principle applies to accountants. While some may receive gifts from clients, especially during tax season, cash tips are generally not expected and could feel awkward or inappropriate.
Delivery Drivers
Delivery drivers for services like Amazon or UPS also are not typically tipped, and they usually will not ask for one. That said, if you regularly interact with the same delivery or mail person, some people choose to offer a small holiday tip or gift as a thank-you.
Skilled Tradespeople
Skilled tradespeople and contractors, such as plumbers or engineers, generally set their own rates based on the value of their work, so customers are not expected to tip them. However, in situations where someone responds to an emergency late at night or during a holiday, offering an extra tip as appreciation for the inconvenience can be a kind gesture.
Flight Attendants
Flight attendants provide many customer-service-related tasks similar to traditionally tipped jobs, but tipping them is not customary. In fact, some airlines prohibit flight attendants from accepting cash tips. Being polite, respectful, and cooperative is usually the best way to show appreciation.
Supporters of tipping argue that suggested gratuities simply provide guidance and help ensure service workers, who often rely heavily on tips for income, are fairly compensated. In most European countries, service is already included in restaurant bills, and tipping is generally minimal.
