Liana and James Hakim, both 37, have permanently relocated their family from Sydney to the Netherlands, with no intention of returning to Australia. The couple, along with their children Johnny, eight, and Penny, six, sought a 'worldly experience' in Europe. What began as a spontaneous 12-month adventure has become a permanent life in the country known for its canals, tulips, windmills, and cycling routes.
Why the Netherlands?
The family was drawn by five key factors: freedom, work-life balance, a sense of community, weather, and proximity to Europe. Liana told Daily Mail, 'It has changed our lives in so many ways.' She describes how her children are thriving in school, coming home at 2 p.m. to play on the street 'like it's 1955.' The family now cycles everywhere, saving on petrol and enjoying outdoor life.
Cost of Living and Housing
The Hakims bought a property in the Netherlands, finding it more affordable than Sydney. Houses range from €300,000 to €1.5 million, compared to Sydney's median of A$1.76 million. James kept his Australian job remotely before freelancing, and Liana expanded her art and coaching business. The family spends less on petrol, air conditioning, and childcare, as school is compulsory from age four.
Education and Language
The children attend a local Waldorf Steiner school, which emphasizes creativity and play. They learned Dutch within months, losing their Australian accents. Liana notes, 'They are thriving... they've matured quite quickly.'
Community and Lifestyle
Liana feels a strong sense of community in the Netherlands, unlike in Sydney. She says, 'I could knock on any door and be welcomed for coffee.' The mild weather, with summers at 30°C and winters at -5°C, is also a plus.
European Travel
Living in the Netherlands makes European holidays accessible. The family drives to Germany, Denmark, France, or Greece, avoiding expensive long-haul flights from Australia.
Culture Shocks
The family adapted to Dutch directness, long summer daylight until 10 p.m., and cycling culture. Liana appreciates the honesty and relaxed parenting style.
A Better Life Abroad
After three years, the Hakims plan to stay long-term. Liana says the move shifted their mindset, reducing fear and increasing trust. She is proud of the resilience her children developed. For others considering a move, she advises, 'Just go for it if the timing is right.'
