Wedding invitations can bring dread instead of excitement when it comes to choosing an outfit. Whether there is a dress code or not, the key is to make an effort and avoid casual items like flip-flops. For black-tie events, opt for floor-length dresses in formal fabrics such as silk or velvet, depending on the season. Destination weddings, especially in hot climates, call for breathable fabrics like linen or cotton instead of synthetic materials.
Beach weddings offer an opportunity to embrace holiday vibes with bold colours, prints, and fun accessories. For countryside weddings, consider a stylish layer for the evening chill, such as a silk scarf tied around the shoulders, rather than a traditional pashmina. Footwear is crucial: avoid spiky heels that sink into grass and consider ballet flats, which now come in many stylish iterations.
Wedding guest attire does not have to mean dresses. Jumpsuits, trousers, and skirts can be equally appropriate. Co-ords offer a put-together look that feels relaxed, while linen suits are perfect for casual summer weddings. Renting outfits from services like Hurr or John Lewis is a sustainable option, and wearing something you already own avoids the risk of clashing with the bridal party.
Accessories can be borrowed from friends or sourced from secondhand sites like Vinted and Depop. While traditional rules advise against wearing white or outshining the bride, a bit of healthy subversion is welcome. Think Scarlett in Four Weddings and a Funeral in bright orange and pink. Floral prints can be given a twist with leather straps, and unexpected colours like brown or leopard print are perfectly acceptable. The goal is to feel like yourself, not like a costume wedding guest—so leave the fascinator at home.
