NHS Medic Dismissed for Inappropriate Relationship with Vulnerable Patient
An NHS Emergency Medical Technician has been fired after engaging in highly inappropriate conduct with a suicidal patient, including arranging a personal meeting and referring to her as "Sleeping Beauty." Ivan Perkins, 42, faced allegations of taking the vulnerable woman on what was described as a "date" following a distressing ambulance call where she was found with a rope around her neck.
Details of the Misconduct and Tribunal Findings
The employment tribunal, held in east London, heard that Mr Perkins worked for the East of England Ambulance Service NHS Trust from 2017. On August 25, 2022, he responded to an emergency call with a senior colleague, discovering the patient at her home in a critical state. After safely releasing her, they transported her to Broomfield Hospital in Essex, with Mr Perkins conversing with her in the back of the ambulance.
During this journey, Mr Perkins disclosed that he was a qualified fitness trainer and suggested that exercise had helped him overcome his own depression. He encouraged the patient to contact him on social media under his alias "Kai Perfect," where he promotes his fitness and weightlifting achievements. The tribunal noted that he "reluctantly" provided his phone number, instructing her to use it only if she felt unheard and as an alternative to self-harm.
Escalation of Inappropriate Interactions
Subsequent exchanges revealed a pattern of unprofessional behavior. Mr Perkins sent messages such as "Hey gorgeous lady" and "Good morning sleeping beauty," failing to escalate her suicidal ideations to police or emergency services. The day after her initial suicide attempt, he arranged to meet her, purchasing a bouquet of flowers following another self-harm incident.
On August 27, when the patient expressed thoughts of overdosing, Mr Perkins asked for her address to "drop something off" instead of alerting paramedics or advising hospital care. He later met her at a bridge, physically preventing her from climbing it, but did not call an ambulance as she feared job loss. He then drove her to a service station, bought drinks and flowers, and left her in a car park.
Investigation and Dismissal
The misconduct came to light in October 2022 when another ambulance crew attended the same patient and learned of her dealings with Mr Perkins. She reported that "a male member of staff had attended her in August and that he had taken her out on a date." This triggered an investigation, during which Mr Perkins omitted key details like buying flowers or an attempted kiss in his statement.
Mr Perkins was dismissed in February 2023 for gross misconduct, with his appeal unsuccessful. He attempted to sue the trust for race discrimination, but the tribunal dismissed the claim, finding that the reporter did not know his identity or race. Mr Perkins, from Basildon, Essex, maintains his innocence, stating, "I am appealing. I am confident I will win the appeal. I did nothing wrong."
Broader Implications for Patient Safety and NHS Protocols
This case underscores critical issues in healthcare professionalism and patient safeguarding. The East of England Ambulance Service NHS Trust's decision to sack Mr Perkins highlights a zero-tolerance approach to boundary violations, especially with vulnerable individuals in mental health crises. It serves as a stark reminder of the ethical obligations medics hold and the severe consequences of breaching trust.
The incident has sparked discussions on training and oversight within emergency services to prevent similar occurrences, emphasizing the need for robust reporting mechanisms and adherence to clinical guidelines when dealing with suicidal patients.



