People are only just realising why men's and women's shirts button up on different sides, and the reason dates back further than you would think. Many people don't even notice the difference until they borrow a shirt or coat from someone of the opposite sex, or purchase a men's garment from a retail store or charity shop. Buttoning clothes the opposite way can feel unnatural, yet it is entirely normal for the other gender.
Theories Behind Button Placement
As with many old traditions, pinpointing the exact moment something became customary is difficult. Bespoke Post, a platform delivering curated boxes to subscribers, explained that the concept may have originated in the 13th century, when men commonly carried weapons such as swords. An employee from the platform stated: 'You ever wonder why men's buttons are on the right and women's buttons are on the left? Well, there are a few theories.'
The Sword Theory for Men
Some historians suggest that men carried swords on their left hip, and buttoning left over right kept the fabric flat when reaching for the handle. Buttoning the other way could cause the sword to catch, costing precious seconds or even one's life. This practical reason may have influenced men's button placement.
The Maid Theory for Women
The theory for women is entirely different. Wealthy women did not dress themselves; their maids did. Since most people are right-handed, buttons on the left side of the garment are easier to button when standing across from someone. This made the dressing process more efficient for servants.
Alternative Explanations
Savile Row, shirtmakers and tailors since 1938, offered another reason. The company noted that during the Renaissance, buttons became more elaborate, with fancier buttons indicating higher social status. Buttons were expensive and a privilege of the wealthy. Convention dictated that servants were essential as 'dressers' for finely attired ladies and gentlemen, and maidservants were most commonly right-handed.
The Baby Theory
Another theory revolves around babies. Given right-hand dominance, mothers tend to hold their babies in their left arm, keeping the right one relatively free. Tops or blouses that open on the right make breastfeeding easier. This practical consideration may have influenced women's button placement.
Historians are not sure which theory is correct. However, regardless of the origin, this tradition persists in modern clothing. As Bespoke Post remarked: 'Either way, this isn't even the 13th century, it's still showing up in your closet today.'



