A couple in Stevenage has reached a unique relationship milestone: since June 2024, they have helped around 50 people experience their first threesome. Ryan Lee, 26, and Gigi Patsy, 30, both sex workers, offer a 'threesome assistance' service on the sex site VivaStreet for £400 per hour, excluding travel costs.
How It All Started
Gigi, a sex worker for four to five years, was drawn to the flexibility and income of the profession. She met Ryan two years ago through a mutual friend in the industry to film porn together at her home in Stevenage. Instead of having sex, they spent hours talking on her light-pink plush velvet sofa, bonding over the challenges of maintaining a relationship in sex work.
Ryan appreciated not having to explain his profession to Gigi, which made them hit it off. They began offering threesome services almost from the start of their relationship.
Clients and Common Requests
Primarily men have booked the service, with only two women so far. Common requests include Ryan being standoffish while the client has sex with Gigi, or walking in halfway through as if catching them. Some clients enjoy a 'double blowjob' or both partners pleasuring Gigi.
Gigi explains that clients often have a list of dos and don'ts. 'With Ryan and I, you can literally give us a list of things you do want to try and things you don't,' she says.
Procedure and Boundaries
Clients must follow a procedure: shower and use disposable toothbrushes provided. Ryan notes, 'Gigi has to kiss them, and some come after smoking cigarettes, being at the pub, or after a long day at work with dirty hands.'
Ryan, as a straight man, has boundaries: he does not kiss on the lips and does not reciprocate touch if a bisexual client wants to perform oral or kiss his body. 'Getting hard around another man, as a straight guy, isn't as easy as everyone thinks,' he explains.
Why Men Book Threesomes
Ryan believes that for some men, having another man helps them focus on pleasing one woman. 'These guys come to have a threesome with a real couple, so he feels he's getting to watch me f**k his wife, which gets him going.'
Gigi adds that many clients are bi-curious men who want to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. 'They say, "well, I'm not gay". No one said you were,' she says.
Separating Work and Love
The couple distinguishes between paid sex and intimate sex. Ryan says, 'The sex between us is more special than what I call "empty" sex.' They keep certain things sacred, like cuddling and using real names, which are reserved for each other.
Gigi recalls a client who used her real name during an appointment, which made her recoil. 'If we're cuddled up in bed, Ryan will call me that,' she says.
Advice for Others
The couple advises honesty in relationships. Ryan says, 'People take their sex lives very seriously but people should just talk to each other.' Gigi adds, 'People should be as comfortable with their partners as they are with us.'
