Philip, 74, an antiquarian book dealer, and Carol, 66, who is retired, met for a blind date arranged by The Guardian. Philip rated the evening 9 out of 10, while Carol gave it an 8. They both expressed willingness to meet again and have swapped numbers.
First Impressions and Conversation
Philip noted they were both incredibly early and caught each other's eye with a smile, calling it a nice moment. Carol described Philip as smartly dressed with a kind face and welcoming manner. Their conversation covered topics including Andy Burnham, Elvis Costello, dogs, U3A groups, trains to Italy, the deficiencies of dating apps, and the pointlessness of shyness in later life. Carol added they discussed what life looks like as we get older, their different careers, and Ian McKellen.
Awkward Moments and Table Manners
Both reported no awkward moments. Philip mentioned Carol sent her G&T flying but found it funny rather than awkward. Carol noted a few tiny missteps but said they took them in stride. Table manners were excellent: Philip checked with Carol before ordering steak tartare and was happy to share his salad.
Descriptions and Impressions
Philip described Carol in three words: warm, accomplished, quirky, loving the little streak of pink in her hair. Carol described Philip as confident, curious, interesting. Philip thought Carol seemed to like him but admitted he's not good at reading people. Carol hoped Philip found her easy to talk to.
After the Date
They did not go on elsewhere; Philip said they linked arms until parting, while Carol cited engineering works on her train line limiting options. There was no kiss, just a peck on the cheek and a hug according to Philip. Both said they wouldn't change anything about the evening.
Would They Meet Again?
Philip said yes, giving a 9 out of 10. Carol said they've swapped numbers, rating the date 8 out of 10. The meal took place at Eataly London, EC2.
