Agony aunt Jane O'Gorman's advice on cheating, delusion, and family pressure
Jane O'Gorman's advice: cheating, delusion, family pressure

Daily Star's agony aunt Jane O'Gorman tackles readers' problems with straight-talking advice, covering issues from cheating and delusion to family pressure and marriage proposals.

Cheating boyfriend's secret room

A reader discovered her boyfriend's secret 'man den' at his parents' house, filled with porn, sex toys, and diaries rating women he'd paid for sex. She confronted him, but he claims the diaries are fiction. Jane advises her to prioritize her well-being and consider a sexual health check.

Tone-deaf girlfriend's dream

A man worries his girlfriend, a former dancer, is deluded about returning to cruise ships despite being tone deaf. Jane suggests open communication and planning, while allowing her to make her own choices.

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Family pressure and marriage proposal

Another reader feels overwhelmed by constant family time, and a man seeks advice on his girlfriend's delayed answer to his proposal. Jane advises setting boundaries and having honest conversations.

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