Woman Prefers Online Sex to Romantic Dinner
A man writes to Jane O'Gorman, agony aunt for the Daily Star, about his girlfriend's obsession with online sex. She talks dirty to men who send her money while she strips on camera. She claims it's not cheating as she never meets them. Despite his objections, she continues, even turning down a romantic dinner for this activity.
Jane advises that compulsive behaviour is worrying. She suggests the girlfriend needs to recognize her problem and consider visiting a GP. If she refuses, the man must consider his own mental health and whether he can continue the relationship.
Friend Owes £250 and Refuses to Repay
Another reader complains about a friend who constantly borrows money, owing at least £250. At a club, she expected the reader to pay her £15 entry fee, drinks, and cab home. When confronted, the friend accused the reader of being small-minded.
Jane recommends a gentle, private conversation about the situation. If the friend has financial issues, friends might consider forgiving the debt but must set boundaries: no more loans, and she can only join if she can pay her way.
