A Romanian woman who embarked on a global journey has revealed her distinctive travel strategy – maintaining 'temporary boyfriends' in every nation she explores. Orsolya Lorincz, aged 34, dedicates her time to flying to exotic destinations across the globe, securing a companion to share experiences with during her brief stays in each location.
How the 'Temporary Boyfriend' System Operates
Based in Romania, Orsolya utilises dating applications such as Hinge to swiftly connect with local men who are amenable to becoming short-term partners. She typically engages in these relationships for about a week, aligning with the duration of her visits. These arrangements involve her temporary boyfriends acting as guides, preparing breakfast, covering expenses for meals and beverages, and occasionally providing accommodation if a strong connection forms.
Origins and Inspiration Behind the Approach
Orsolya initiated her solo travel adventures in 2016 after resigning from her job, selling her apartment, and utilising her savings. She credits an online influencer who practised a similar method for inspiring her to adopt these transient relationships. Through her social media platforms, she documents her travels and even posts videos featuring her 'temporary boyfriends,' garnering significant attention online.
Benefits and Cultural Insights
Orsolya emphasises that these partnerships are not about exploiting individuals for complimentary trips but rather for gaining cultural insights and practical assistance. Her temporary boyfriends often reveal hidden gems, traditions, and local spots that conventional travel agencies might overlook, enabling a more authentic and unique exploration of each country.
She articulated: 'It is just a temporary boyfriend to hang out with and do stuff together. I don't use them for free trips, more like free meals and tour guides. They pay for food, drinks and they are my free tour guides, or sometimes take me on day trips with their car.'
Social Media Reaction and Future Aspirations
Following a recent video showcasing her 'temporary boyfriends,' Orsolya received approximately fifty offers via direct messages and comments from individuals worldwide, inviting her to visit their countries as a short-term girlfriend. Despite this, she maintains no long-term plans and is currently relishing her lifestyle, though she remains open to settling down with a partner who shares her passion for frequent travel.
Orsolya reflected on the advantages of her method, noting the freedom to travel independently without coordinating with a partner, while acknowledging that long-term relationships could reduce travel costs. However, she has yet to encounter a man who has visited more countries or is willing to embrace a nomadic lifestyle similar to hers.
She concluded: 'Of course, ideally, I would find a stable job and partner. But until that happens, I am happy to meet men from different cultures to explore their country in a more in-depth way.'
