One in four single adults in the UK have ditched dating apps in favour of meeting people in real life, according to a new poll. However, a messy car remains a significant turn-off for many.
The research, commissioned by Alfa Romeo UK, surveyed 1,000 single adults and found that 60% are experiencing dating app fatigue, and 49% would prefer to meet people in real life. Despite this, 47% said meeting people in the real world is more challenging than it was five years ago, with 35% believing this is because it's harder to tell whether someone is interested.
Scenic drives and adventure dates preferred
The perfect date for 35% of respondents is a drive to a scenic location, while 44% would be more likely to agree to an adventure-style date rather than the traditional dinner and drinks. However, 21% admitted that a messy car would be an instant turn-off.
Alfa Romeo UK, which commissioned the research and has launched a dating guide called Guida all’Amore, hopes to encourage more natural connections. Jules Tilstone, the managing director, said: "Dating apps have transformed the way people meet, but our research suggests singles are now looking for a more natural and authentic way to make connections."
"A scenic drive or an impromptu road trip offers the chance to step away from the traditional dating scenario and share a more natural experience together," Tilstone added.
Comfort and authenticity key
The study also found that 51% would feel most comfortable on a relaxed and informal date, while 40% prefer to make plans together. Women in particular feel that having the freedom to shape the experience can help create a date that feels comfortable and authentic - 91% said they "must" have a say in planning the occasion.
Almost a quarter (23%) said they would prefer to meet someone while going about their everyday life, while 15% are most interested in meeting someone through a shared hobby or group. More than half (57%) said real-life scenarios are better for creating authentic relationships than dating apps.
Red flags and chemistry
When it comes to developing a bond, 40% said mutual attraction is most important, while 36% pointed to a sense of humour and 30% said good conversation is fundamental. The research, carried out through OnePoll, also found that chemistry is significant - 86% said this or a spark is key when dating someone new.
However, when meeting a potential partner, 47% said poor personal hygiene is a major red flag, while 41% highlighted rude behaviour.
Jules Tilstone from Alfa Romeo UK, makers of the Junior Elettrica, added: "In a world dominated by swipes, matches and screens, genuine connection can feel harder to find than ever, we are introducing Guida all’Amore, a guide to dating in-person and making lasting memories together."
"Inspired by our Italian heritage, where passion and emotion are woven into everyday life, the guide offers practical tips and expert advice for creating meaningful connections beyond the world of dating apps, celebrating the joy of spending time together and gently guiding you on your dating journey," Tilstone concluded.
