A psychologist who treated families after the Dunblane massacre has advised that children who survived the Newtown school shooting need routine and stability. Philip Dutton, a former NHS clinical psychologist who now specialises in trauma counselling, said the children require 'predictability' to cope with the tragedy. He stressed the importance of regular mealtimes, bedtimes, and emotionally strong parents to restore a sense of normality.
Dutton explained that uncertainty is a major fear for children, and the shock of seeing friends shot or killed can be overwhelming. He warned that if parents relax all controls, children may feel no stability, which can prevent their neurological system from feeling safe. Some children may also experience guilt, blaming themselves for not saving their friends, while parents might feel guilt or embarrassment if their child survived.
Nearly two decades on, the people of Dunblane understand what Newtown families are going through. Last Friday, a community concert in Dunblane was overshadowed by news of the Connecticut shooting. The sports centre, built to honour the 16 children and their teacher killed in 1996, held a choir performance that continued despite the shock.
Stewart Prodger, a volunteer director, described the atmosphere as the news spread through the room. The centre lit lanterns in solidarity with Newtown and opened a book of condolences. Trustees are considering sending a meaningful gift, such as a stained glass window or a sapling, to embody the support and strength gained over the years.
