When Jimmy Glendinning began experiencing memory problems and confusion, his family grew concerned that he could have dementia. The 68-year-old experienced difficulties finding the right words, something they thought could be linked to Alzheimer's disease.
As his condition rapidly deteriorated, he was rushed to hospital in November 2024. But scans revealed Jimmy, from Flintshire in North Wales, had a glioblastoma, an aggressive and incurable form of brain tumour.
His daughter Naomi, 38, who lives in Ellesmere Port, Cheshire, recalled: "The first sign something wasn't right came when Dad rang Mum from Sainsbury's because he couldn't remember why he was there or what he'd gone in to buy. At first, we thought it might have been a mini stroke because he was struggling to get his words out, but the episode passed and he carried on as normal.
"As the months went on, he became more forgetful and started struggling to find the right words during conversations. Because his own mum had Alzheimer's disease, my sister Helga was one of the first people to suggest he might be showing the early signs of dementia. For months, that was genuinely what our family believed we were dealing with."
Jimmy, a retired hygiene operative, had always been fit and active. A keen walker who loved music, nature and spending time with family, he rarely complained about his health and was known for his generosity, humour and willingness to help others.
As the summer progressed, however, his symptoms became increasingly difficult to ignore. "Dad became more withdrawn and irritable, which wasn't like him at all," Naomi said. "Mum was becoming increasingly worried and kept trying to persuade him to see a doctor, but he kept putting it off. By October, he was suffering terrible headaches and we later discovered he'd been taking increasing amounts of painkillers just to cope. He also started having episodes of confusion.
"One day he tried to make soup in a plastic jug on the hob and genuinely couldn't understand why that was dangerous. That was one of the moments when we realised something was seriously wrong."
Despite eventually agreeing to see his GP and being referred for further tests, Jimmy's condition deteriorated dramatically before any appointments could take place. On 20 November 2024, he suddenly lost feeling in his legs and was rushed to Glan Clwyd Hospital by ambulance.
Naomi said: "I was sitting in my home office when Mum called. At first, she wouldn't tell me what was wrong and just asked me to come to the hospital. I knew immediately it had to be serious. When she finally told me Dad had a brain tumour, I completely broke down. It was the worst news imaginable."
Further investigations confirmed Jimmy had an aggressive glioblastoma and he was referred to The Walton Centre in Liverpool. Doctors warned the family that without treatment he might not survive until Christmas.
Determined to spend as much time as possible with his family, Jimmy underwent surgery on December 10 where surgeons successfully removed around 80 per cent of the tumour.
The family were able to spend Christmas together, but just weeks later Jimmy developed a serious post-operative infection. Naomi said: "Mum woke up one morning and found blood on his pillow. What we thought was a minor complication quickly became something much more serious. The infection spread and Dad needed emergency surgery. Surgeons had to remove part of his skull and there was a point where we genuinely thought we might lose him."
Jimmy spent seven weeks in hospital recovering from the infection and was later diagnosed with two pulmonary embolisms. Following months of recovery, he eventually began chemotherapy and radiotherapy.
Today, he continues to undergo monitoring and treatment while living with the lasting effects of both the tumour and the complications that followed. Driven to make a real impact, Naomi and her family have raised over £3,000 for Brain Tumour Research through a 24-hour Readathon and a charity basketball fundraiser organised by relatives and local supporters.
Together, they have generated enough to fund more than a day's research at the Brain Tumour Research Centre of Excellence at the University of Nottingham, where scientists are working tirelessly to develop improved treatments for glioblastoma.
Naomi said: "Life looks very different now. Dad relies on a walker and has lost much of the independence he once had, but he still has the same dry sense of humour and determination that have always defined him. Mum and my sister Helga share much of his day-to-day care, and his grandchildren, Nicola and James, give him plenty of reasons to keep fighting. One of the hardest things to come to terms with has been discovering how little funding brain tumour research receives compared with other cancers.
"Before Dad's diagnosis, I had no idea how underfunded this disease was. Supporting Brain Tumour Research feels like the right way to honour him and help drive progress towards better treatments and, ultimately, a cure."
According to the NHS, common symptoms of a brain tumour can include:
- Headaches
- Seizures (fits)
- Persistently feeling sick (nausea), being sick (vomiting) and drowsiness
- Mental or behavioural changes, such as memory problems or changes in personality
- Progressive weakness or paralysis on one side of the body
- Vision or speech problems
Sometimes you may not have any symptoms to begin with, or they may develop very slowly over time. To learn more about Brain Tumour Research, visit braintumourresearch.org.
