An American mother has revealed how switching from US to British parenting techniques completely transformed her children's behaviour – and the results are astonishing.
After moving to the UK, she noticed stark differences in how British parents raised their kids compared to the US. Intrigued, she decided to adopt the British approach, and the changes were immediate.
Why British Parenting Won Her Over
She observed that British parents tend to be more relaxed, allowing children greater independence while maintaining firm boundaries. Phrases like "well done" and "you can try again" replaced constant praise, fostering resilience.
The Biggest Changes She Made:
- Less Praise: Reduced excessive compliments to encourage intrinsic motivation.
- More Independence: Allowed her kids to solve problems on their own.
- Firm Boundaries: Clear rules with consistent consequences.
Her children became more confident, less anxious, and better at handling setbacks. The shift even improved her own stress levels as a parent.
Would She Go Back?
Absolutely not. She credits British parenting for creating a calmer, happier household and plans to stick with it – even if it means fewer "good jobs" and more "keep trying".
