While sex toys for women are more widely discussed, the market for men's pleasure devices has expanded significantly in recent years. From strokers and vibrators to suction-based designs, there is now a diverse range of options for solo or partnered play. According to Alix Fox, an award-winning sex expert and spokesperson for Tenga, toys can enhance partnered sex, encourage mindfulness, and introduce new sensations. They also help counteract 'death grip' from manual masturbation, which can reduce sensitivity during intercourse.
Despite these benefits, men are far less likely to own a sex toy than women. Research cited by Fox, using Durex data, shows that around 77% of women who masturbate have tried a toy, compared to only about 25% of men. However, the growing variety of products makes this an ideal time for men to explore their options.
Among the top picks is the Godemiche Offbeat Masturbator, a hand-made silicone sleeve that slips over the penis for added sensation. It offers customisable inner textures—such as wavy, bumpy, or the 'kraken' with a mesh-like tube—and comes in various colours. It must be used with water-based lube to protect the silicone.
For anal exploration, the Vibrating Butt Plug features a T-shaped flared base for safety and a 4.5-inch girth. It includes a three-speed bullet vibrator that targets the P-spot and can also be used on other erogenous zones or for clitoral stimulation (after cleaning). Made from body-safe silicone, it is submersible and easy to clean, requiring one AAA battery.
The Arcwave uses 'pleasure air technology' to create suction along the penis, targeting the frenulum. With a ribbed interior, 3.5 inches of penetrable length, and a weight of 355g, it comes with a charging base that doubles as a dryer. Meanwhile, the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive is a compact masturbator that connects to over 4,000 interactive content pieces, building on the brand's reputation for innovative male toys.
