Like many people my age, I'm no stranger to festivals. So when the chance came to watch amazing music in a stunning location in the county I grew up in, I jumped at it. Kendal Calling celebrated 20 years in the fields this year, nestled in the hills of the north Lake District at Lowther Park. It attracts big acts and offers breathtaking views.
This wasn't my first time in Cumbria, so I felt confident about spending three nights under the stars. Fat Boy Slim's Saturday set was a highlight—I danced for two hours, though it felt like a gruelling workout the next morning. Other acts like Frank Turner, The Prodigy, and Reverend and The Makers were also amazing.
Kendal Calling has grown since my first visit in 2014, with disco tents, game shows, silent discos, comedy, and more. But what I hadn't accounted for was that the last time I partied there, I was in my 30s. Camping in your 40s is a very different experience, and there are three things I'd never do again.
First, I'd never bring a cheap sleeping bag. I grew up in Cumbria, I know it gets cold, but I ordered the cheapest bag I could find. Waking up shivering at 3am is not fun. Next time, I'll invest in a cosy, warm arrangement.
Second, I'd never sleep on the ground. Since turning 40, my back hurts easily. Sleeping on a cold, hard floor for three nights was a mistake. Next time, I'll pack a double airbed for maximum comfort.
Third, I'd never wear normal pyjamas. I hate being cold, yet I packed regular PJs for three nights outdoors. Next time, I'll wear thermals, several layers, and woolly socks. Despite the discomfort, it was an epic weekend, and we're already planning next year.
