A woman has recounted the shocking moment her date of two months urinated in the shower while she was standing in it, leaving her horrified and ultimately ending the relationship. The incident occurred after the couple, who met on Bumble, had been seeing each other exclusively for several weeks.
The Unexpected Announcement
The woman, who wishes to remain anonymous, said she was taking a shower with her date, referred to as George, after they had slept together. George, a 31-year-old British man working in tech, casually announced, "I'm going to pee now." Initially, she thought he was joking, but he proceeded to urinate in the bathtub with her still inside.
"I watched in horror as his urine drained into the tub," she said. "A bit of pee I could learn to deal with – but it was the fact that I looked visibly uncomfortable and he carried on anyway."
Relationship Background
The couple had matched on Bumble nearly a year ago when she moved to the Middle East for work. They shared immediate chemistry and common goals, including wanting to settle down and start a family in about five years. After a first date at the cinema followed by dinner, they continued seeing each other, attending plays, museums, ice skating, and raves. They decided to date exclusively after a few weeks.
They took the relationship slowly, having sex for the first time after a month. The woman described the sex as "even better than anticipated," noting that George was a great kisser, affectionate, and attentive with a hint of kink. She discovered she enjoyed light spanking during sex.
The Shower Incident
The fourth time she stayed over at his place, they had sex again, and he asked her to shower with him. She agreed, despite never having showered with anyone before. They began scrubbing each other's backs, which she found romantic and cute – until George smirked and announced he was going to pee.
"I froze, wondering if he was enjoying himself at that moment – and even if he wanted to pee on me," she said. She moved to the edge of the bathtub, terrified, as he urinated in front of her as if they had been married for fifteen years. After he finished, she asked, "What was that?" but he did not respond. They continued the shower as if nothing had happened.
Aftermath and Breakup
The woman later learned that George had been in a long-term relationship with a very kinky girl before her, leading her to wonder if peeing in a bathtub with someone was normal for him. Despite her horror, she continued seeing him for another couple of weeks, but she could not bring herself to sleep with him again due to her plummeting attraction.
About a month after the incident, George cancelled a date at the last minute and was nonchalant about it. They had a huge fight over the phone, and she hung up on him. Neither reached out again, ending the relationship without closure. "I have zero regrets about my decision, and moving on didn't take too long at all," she said. "My feelings for him had diluted by the time we had our last fight."
She concluded: "Losing a fun man who's great in bed can feel sad in the moment – but good sex is replaceable, when you have unexpected pee to deal with. And, needless to say, it will be a while before I hop in the shower with anyone again."
