Country music star Jessie James Decker has opened up about the difficulties of juggling her career with motherhood in a candid new interview. The 35-year-old singer, who shares three children with her husband Eric Decker, revealed the emotional toll of balancing work and family life.
The Struggle of Being a Working Mum
Decker admitted that being a working mother often leaves her feeling torn between her professional ambitions and her desire to be present for her children. "It's a constant battle," she confessed. "There are days when I feel guilty for working, and other days when I feel guilty for not working enough."
Finding the Right Balance
The singer explained how she's learned to navigate these challenges over time. "I've had to set boundaries and be more selective about the projects I take on," she said. "My family always comes first, but my career is important too."
Decker also shared how her husband, former NFL player Eric Decker, plays a crucial role in their family dynamic. "We make it work as a team," she revealed. "Eric is incredibly supportive, and we both prioritise our children's wellbeing above everything else."
The Emotional Toll
The mother-of-three didn't shy away from discussing the emotional aspects of her situation. "There are nights when I cry myself to sleep," she admitted. "The pressure to be perfect at everything - as a mother, as a wife, as an artist - can be overwhelming."
Despite the challenges, Decker remains grateful for her busy life. "I wouldn't change a thing," she said. "My children are my greatest blessing, and my career allows me to provide for them while doing what I love."
Advice for Other Working Mums
When asked what advice she would give to other working mothers, Decker emphasised the importance of self-compassion. "Be kind to yourself," she urged. "No one is perfect, and it's okay to ask for help when you need it."
The singer concluded by acknowledging that every family's situation is unique. "What works for us might not work for someone else," she said. "The most important thing is to find what makes your family happy and healthy."
