A new poll of 2,000 British adults reveals that 71% have no issue with age gaps in relationships, provided both partners are at a similar level of maturity and share the same life goals. The research, commissioned by Disney+ to promote the new comedy series Alice and Steve, indicates that more than half of respondents consider an age difference of 10 to 20 years acceptable.
Preferences by Gender and Age
According to the study, one in five adults would rather date someone older, including 32% of women and 8% of men. Conversely, men were more likely to prefer a younger partner (33%) than someone the same age (21%). Those who prefer older partners cited emotional maturity, stability, and confidence as key attractions, while those leaning toward younger partners valued looks, energy, and spontaneity.
Lee Mason, vice president of Scripted at Disney+ EMEA and commissioner of Alice and Steve, noted: "Our research highlights just how complex relationships are, and how easy it is to rely on assumptions until we're faced with real situations." He added that while people may judge age-gap relationships, "it's fascinating to see how many would consider being in one and how people are ultimately focused on shared values, life goals and emotional compatibility."
Evolving Attitudes
The poll found that 47% of Brits believe society is becoming more accepting of age-gap relationships. A quarter of respondents said they have become more open to such partnerships as they have aged. Additionally, 28% credited TV and films with positively influencing their views, with Gen Z (46%) far more likely to say so than Baby Boomers (10%).
Despite growing acceptance, concerns remain. The biggest worries included differing lifestyles and potential power imbalances. About 9% said they would be put off if the partner had a connection to a friend or family member. However, 14% said they would feel more positive if a close friend or relative already knew the person, and 33% said that would make them more open-minded.
Shared Values Over Age
Lee Mason concluded: "For most people, a successful relationship is about far more than age alone. In making the show, we wanted to explore the ways in which different generations react to age gap relationships and how it affects family, friendship and the relationship itself." He added that while intergenerational relationships remain debatable, "many adults believe compatibility, maturity and shared goals matter much more than the number of years between partners."
